So my Fi and I have been together for 5 years next month. He proposed to me in October and I have been looking for places to get married since Nov. Took Dec off because of the holiday traditions we have... We are from different places and would be asking guests to fly in from all over to attend our wedding so he wants to do it over a two day weekend like Memorial or Labor day... But we live in South Florida.
Rewind.... we were down in Key West for Memorial day this year and saw a wedding on the pier over the ocean and we fell in love with this look and this is what I have been looking into for our venue. I have been talking to the catering manager and had all the details laid out.
Fast forward to New Years and we had a party. Fi best friend asked where and when we are getting married and he said I want to do the Key West wedding that we saw (Fi friend was with us for the Memorial day weekend ) and so on and so forth.
Fast forward on more time to last week when I told him I worked everything out and we can do a two day weekend wedding in the Keys. I wanted to do it for Labor Day next year (2014) and I worked everything out. Payment plan to have it paid off before we marry, hotel will block rooms for us, whole nine yards. Seems perfect right...
Now, he doesnt want to do it and wont tell me why other then the fact he doesnt want to wait that long to get married.
Does the amount of time you are engaged matter as long as you get married? Am I missing something?
Getting Hitches 08/09/2014