August 2012 Weddings

Just figured out ceremony wording, please give me your opinions :)

Just a bit of background info.. FI & I are not religious and we are having an old family friend, get licensed to be a one day marriage officent (this has been taken care of). He has never performed a wedding so I figured I'd just get it out of the way tonight and get the ceremony wording out of the way. we have been planning on a quick ceremony so I thought this was short & sweet, please tell me what you think :)

Welcome to family and friends:
Friends, we have come together today to witness the marriage of Paul and Kimberly. The legal requirements of this state having been fulfilled, and the license for their marriage being present, I must ask of each party if they come of their own free will and accord.

Paul, do you come to this union of your free will, and with the intention of being faithful in marriage to Kimberly as long as you shall live?

Groom answers "I do."

Kimberly, do you come to this union of your free will, and with the intention of being faithful in Marriage to Paul as long as you shall live?

Bride answers "I do."

Who presents Kimberly to be married to Paul?

Bride's father (or representative) responds "I do."

Vows:
Please repeat the following after me:
I,Paul, do take you, Kimberly, to be my lawfully wedded wife. I promise from this day forward to be your faithful husband, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, as long as I shall live.

Please repeat after me:
I, Kimberly, do take you, Paul, to be my lawfully wedded husband. I promise from this day forward to be your faithful wife, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, as long as I shall live.

Rings
The wedding ring seals the vows of marriage as a signature bears witness to a written covenant. As the ring is placed upon the finger, will you repeat these words:

With this ring I give you my heart. I promise from this day forward you shall not walk alone. May my heart be your shelter, and my arms be your home. (2x)

We have come together in this place and have heard the willingness of Paul and Kimberly to be joined in marriage. They have come of their free will and in our hearing have made a covenant of faithfulness. They have given and received a ring as the seal of their promises.

Therefore, by the power vested in me by the state of Massachusetts I pronounce that they are husband and wife.



Ignore the italics and weird bolded stuff... thanks!

Re: Just figured out ceremony wording, please give me your opinions :)

  • It's nice, but it is very brief. You might want to add a reading of something that is meaningful to you, if you don't already have something planned. We are having one of our friends read a short poem and our officiant is reading another sweet blessing that is not overtly religious.
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  • I agree this is very short, it seems like it would take less than 10 minutes.  But I must say, I LOVE the ring exchange words and I might have to steal them!! So sweet :)  We are having a non-religious ceremony so to make the ceremony longer and more personal, we are having our commissioner incorporate a short poem that we feel embodies our connection, and at the end we are using the Apache Wedding Blessing as part of the closing.  Also we are going to have her give a small brief on why we chose our particular ceremony spot (special significance to us) and marriage advice is sort of sprinkled throughout the ceremony.  Your commissioner should be able to offer you some more suggestions of what is typical and would go with what you're wanting in the ceremony.
  • Oh sorry, I didn't realize you are having a friend do the ceremony, that's so sweet!  To give you an idea of ours though, our ceremony will be about 20-35 minutes long in total which is still quite short I think!
  • We're doing the Apache Wedding Blessing too! I love it.
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  • thankyou for the advice. Im looking forward to having a short ceremony. i just wanted everything to be short and to the point & to not miss out on anything thats important.  Its going to be on the beach in Aug so its probably going to be pretty hot and I bet our guests will thank us for getting us out of the sun ;) thanks for the help ladies!
  • Our vows are also short, nothing wrong with that. Remember this is your day, so make the vows about you and FI. Alot can be said in a few words.  
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