Are you buying things ahead of time for the weddings/future homes?
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I'm not for the wedding, but I am for the home
FI bought me a Hope Chest last Christmas. He and my dad made a project out of it and fixed it up real nice (It was in terrible condition lol). My mom, grandma, sister, and some friends have been buying random items that I would most likely not get at a shower but if I did, duplicates are welcome (like sheets, towels, dishes, etc.). I have bought some decorating items as people in my circle don't buy those for showers. It's fun and exciting