OK so lets just say my mother and I don't have the same taste. We decided to go rustic with my wedding theme which I have always loved but was surpised my mother agreed too. After decideing on alot of details and a smaller more rustic venue she called hte next day and was doubting my ideas. I think she was worried about what everyone else would think. I am so different from the rest of my family and they have always khad very formal weddings andthey were beautiful but not for me. Well I finally said it " I don,t care what everyone else thinks its my wedding and I think it's perfect. If they don't like it they will get over it. They will expect different from me I know they do." She was in shock at first then said "I'm so proud of you and we will do it your way." So if your being bullied by anyone about your wedding stand up for yourself and be happy on your day. If I did you can.