Not freaking out is starting to freak me out?

Melissa51212 · May 2012

Everyone keeps asking..are you nervous? Are you freaking out? NO! Should I be? I'm calm and cool and just want it to be here already! I have everything done besides check writing! Anyone else feel this way?

deanabuonincontri · May 2012

I am calm as well yet, people continue to ask me if I am freaking out so I feel your pain! I think that people tend to freak out about weddings for a variety of reasons...the most common include (1) not being sure about getting married (2) not being sure about the guy and then (3) not having you $hit together!

I am not freaking out because I am one million percent sure about the marriage and the guy. And we have our $hit together, everything is in order. We planned appropriately, didnt wait til the last minute, and aren't sweating the small stuff.

I'm sure this is why you aren't freaking out either. The truth is, we shouldn't be freaking out....we should be bursting with excitiment!! I know I am!!!

krizzo17 · May 2012

I'm freaking out, but in an I'm-so-excited-I-can't-sit-still kind of way, not in a nervous way. I have no idea how I'm going to wait through the next 23 days!

geojam224 · May 2012

I think I'm the same way! I'm not freaking out like some people are, I'm honestly worried about what I don't know. I'm just afraid that the day of, we're gonna forget something like the rings, or the cake topper or something. I lose things when I'm stressed- and honestly, I'm spending so much time on these boards when I should be doing stuff, but I honestly don't have enough to do!

ronik77 · May 2012

I didnt start feeling a little freaked out until these last couple of days. Now the FI on the other hand has had ants in his pants for a couple of weeks now. He's more nervous than I am.

He finally told me he was nervous becuase he wanted everything to be perfect for me and he didn't know how to make that happen.... Aaaahh... I basically told him, it wasn't going to be perfect. Somebody was going to be late, I was going to be blubbering through my vows and somebody in one of our families would probably say something to tick one of us off. But what was going to make it perfect was that at the end of the day he would be my husband.

Now I'm starting to freak out about all the little things getting done in the next few days and my sisters' plane getting here on time! LOL

cpm1223 · May 2012

I am feeling the same way! People keep asking me if I'm freaking out too!

I have some things left to do, but I'm feeling like they're manageable and I don't see them as huge tasks, so I guess thats helping my stress level.

I also did a lot of DIY stuff ahead of time (like almost a year ago now) so things have been ready for a while now!

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