I know when it comes to bridal showers and bridal parties the guest are supposed to buy you gifts. Well, I am a tad on the impatient side and tend to have to get things done way in advance. Needless to say, I am trying to figure out what kind of things I am allowed to get myself for the wedding; garter, wedding night lingerie, ect. Am I just supposed to wait to see if my guests to these showers and parties might me these things?