Thanks for the referral NH knotties! Here are the photos so she get some kudos, she was great!
(Also posted on the Oct. 2010 board)
Finding a make-up artist hasn't been nearly as difficult as a hair stylist, here are the pictures.
She was a lot of fun to work with and such a sweet person. I'll post this on the NH board too so she gets a little more kudos!
I wanted her to go dramatic with the eyes and she did, but later I realized that I needed to tone it down a little to feel comfortable. FI jumped when he saw the lashes.

As you can see the lashes are quite dramatic, in pictues not so much, but in person I could hardly recognize myself.

So here is without the lashes: