I can't wait for Thursday on this. So an older friend decided she wants to host a shower for me (which is great love that). But decided it will be a personal shower as there will be another shower later on (I told her this and she still wanted to have it even though its technically 2 showers). Well since its a personal shower, I decided it would be better to just have close friends and not include family. Then the other shower would be a larger crowd and family friendly (if that makes since).
Ok vent part, she decided that since my Grandma on my dad's side would not be invited I should call her and tell her (Grandma) about it. So, I'm thinking through what I would say and I'm basically calling by Grandma to tell her about this awesome party and that she can't come?? What? No one is worried about my other Grandma not being invited! Why is it a big deal that she isn't invited when none of the family is? I decided I'm not going to call.
Also, they wanted to have it at a bar. There are only 2 in town and my family owns the other. That means 1. it will be at their bar and they aren't invited which looks really bad or 2. its held at the competition's bar and that looks bad. So to avoid that fiasco, I had to offer my house to have the party at. There are like 6 or 8 people "hosting" this and it has to be at my house? There is wedding stuff from one end of the house to the other! Just seems a little odd that its a party for me and I have all this crap that I have to deal with.
Ok now I need to suck it up since I vented and just let it go. Hope this is a great party to be worth all this drama.
