Do any other brides feel like they have to walk on eggshells for fear of being called "bridezilla"?!?! I don't have the personality to be bridezilla, but I also am not about to get walked all over by the people in the wedding party because I don't want them to call me bridezilla.
I have 7 bridesmaids, and they are all completely different personalities. We just had a BM dress shopping weekend, where I had a huge breakdown b/c one of my BMs had a huge brat fit b/c I didn't pick the dress she loved. After her fit, everyone's mood was just crappy. I actually had another girl say "I'm not trying on any more dresses, I'm just too burnt out." It was the second bridal shop of the day, but she had tried on MAYBE 4 different dresses the whole day. I wanted to scream and tell them all to just go home, but I cried in the bathroom instead.... I have a future SIL who is a BM and she asked me if I was going to make her wear make up the day of the wedding. I said yes, though I know she's very naturalistic. I'm not asking her to be a clown or get air brushed make up... just wear a little bit of something.
After the weekend my future MIL called my fiance and asked him to talk to me about everything. She said she was worried if everything wasn't perfect the day of the wedding, that I would have a breakdown/become bridezilla.
Is it wrong that I want our wedding to be as perfect as can be?? Is it wrong to ask my bridesmaids to wear the same style dress b/c I want the focus to be on me and my fiance? (ps, all my BMs are between a size 3-8, so the dresses they did try on looked good on everyone) I don't think it's wrong for me and my fiance to want what we want for our day. We take our parents ideas and advice into account, of course, but I'm not giving in to my BMs b/c they want to control certain things. Am I out of line here or are there any other brides feeling the same??