My fiance and I do not want to do the dollar dance. We think it's tacky but many of the guests our age have expressed interest that we should do it at our reception. Even though we've made our feelings about it known to all, what do we do if people start one? I've told FI that I didn't think there would be a polite way to decline at the reception without looking snooty or ungrateful in some way.
Is there a proper way around this or will we need to just suck it up if it does happen?