I’m currently in a very upsetting situation.
My fiancé’s sister is just assuming she is a bridesmaid, (she was never asked at all) and has taken it upon herself in the last few days to start planning to be one. I had already had my 2 bridesmaids arranged for 2 months what should I do now? I really don’t want feelings hurt but, just have no idea how to go about the situation.
THE STORY: My fiancé and I are positive that we want a small wedding party (2 groomsmen and 2 bridesmaids). Together we had discussed his sister being a bridesmaid and decided that it would be best for her to just sit and enjoy the wedding with her husband and 1 yr old daughter.
A few days ago after she had, had some health issues she and my fiancé were talking privately and she mentioned that it was really important for her to be in the wedding and that someone else can watch her daughter. My fiancé being the nice guy he is said he would talk to me about it(fair enough). We talked I said It would be best to just leave it how we have with the 2 bridesmaids but, not to bring it up for awhile because she was super touchy and depressed from her condition. The next day she asked him on the way out the door if he had talked to me he simply said “yes that we had started to talk” and that was it. That night she visited me at my home and asked me questions such as what dress should I pick and what shoes, I was appalled but being the way I am I just said “can we talk about this some other time I’m feeling a little stressed out.” It ended there what do I do now????? any suggestions thanks CC