Wedding Woes

It's the C word

And all I can think is of WW and how she was so healthy and went so fast.

It is in the hand of the cancer, where the pancreas produces the digestive juices.

She is going to have chemo and surgery.

My day change a wholefucking lot since this morning.
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Re: It's the C word

  • loveshine1loveshine1 member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh my God. I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm thinking of you and your family and praying that your mom will be ok.
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh Min.  I am so, so very sorry.  Please let us know if there is anything at all any of us can do.

    Big hugs and lots of prayers for you and your family.
  • edited December 2011
    Thank you. NOLA, will you ask Jesus when I can get a break, please?
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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011
    ::BIG HUGS::

    Don't forget to breathe and take this whole thing one step at a time. For every WW story there lots of other stories of people people who came through okay.
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  • notamrsnotamrs member
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    edited December 2011
    So sorry, Min.  Lots of thoughts and prayers coming your way.
  • L_WoodsL_Woods member
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    edited December 2011
    Asking along with NOLA.

    I'm sorry Min. Call me if you need to scream really loud.
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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so, so sorry. All my hugs and vibes and prayers are headed your way.
  • GBCKGBCK member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry.
  • edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry min. ((hugs))
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  • edited December 2011
    Min, I'm so sorry to hear this.

    I know you are beside yourself, but we are all here, and you know I will be praying for your mom. If you also would like to pray together we can always do that too.
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh Min!  I'm so sorry.  Many T+P's and vibes for your mom, you, and your family.  ::Hugs::
  • dharmabunnydharmabunny member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh crap, I'm so sorry *hugs*

    Someday, you'll have something wonderfully fabulous and unexpected in your life for weathering this sh!t parade :(...Jesus, karmic balance, whatever.
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  • edited December 2011
    Oh, Min. I'm so, so sorry. ((hug)) I wish I had something better to offer.
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  • edited December 2011
    Oh, Min =(  I'm also saying prayers for you and your family. ::hugs::  Please keep us updated with how she's  (and you're) doing.
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  • tawillerstawillers member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry, min.  ::hugs::

  • edited December 2011
    I feel like I had a stroke. My thoughts are clear in my head, but they come out all jumbled. My voice sounds weird, I feel like puking & I'm shaky. I'm dependent on my sister for information & our relationship isn't good. I'm firing her questions and she's telling me 'enough already.' We move at different speeds and while I'm OK with that, she's judges me. (OK, I judge her, but not to her face.) She treats my personality like a character flaw. I'm scared for my mom and sorry for my sisters & my H. I want to crawl into a hole. And eat Xanax. Lots and lots of Xanax.
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  • *Barbie**Barbie* member
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    edited December 2011

    *HUGS and VIBES*

    I'm so sorry to hear about your mom.

  • edited December 2011
    So sorry. Will say some prayers.
  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    Holy hell.  I'm pissed that I didn't check back last night.  I'm so sorry Min.   Gah, there are no words sufficient right now.  ::vibes, love, light::
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  • AuntFloAuntFlo member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh Min, I'm so sorry.  
    I'm sending more hugs and vibes your way!

    Is there any way that you can go home this weekend to get all the info or to just see her?
  • edited December 2011
    AF - I could try to catch a flight home, but it would probably be ridiculously expensive and there is no way I could drive. I don't know what I am going to do....basic functioning is pretty challenging right now.
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  • ~~Busy.~~~~Busy.~~ member
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    edited December 2011
    *hugs Min*
  • edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry, MinM. 

    {prayers, hugs, & vibes for you and your family.}
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  • LnR70707LnR70707 member
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    edited December 2011
    I am so very sorry Min.

    Lots of  T&Ps and hugs
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