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Im mad..

I was just sitting here thinking and I just realized my damn bridal party color scheme is all jacked up because of these damn so called friends. I was supposed to have 4 girls and guys. One was in peacock teal 2 in purple, one in royal blue . Now I have 2 girls.. one in purple, one royal blue. 3 guys one royal blue, one purple, one peacock. WTH ?! Im trying to not let this bother me but this just light weight pissed me off.
Rant over..carry on

Re: Im mad..

  • awww hang in there. I know right now it might seem like the most horrible thing, but at the end of the day you will be married to the man you love. That is what is important. If it makes you feel any better I only chose two girls, a MOH and a BM and it seems like the BM is going to back out;:/ So just focus on you and FI and that will keep you happy during this process.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_im-mad?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:29937d3d-7060-4f33-a8ae-9918c6b72fd8Post:448d4556-959e-4ce6-a077-f2e5d232d71a">Re: Im mad..</a>:
    [QUOTE]awww hang in there.<strong> I know right now it might seem like the most horrible thing, but at the end of the day you will be married to the man you love. That is what is important.</strong> If it makes you feel any better I only chose two girls, a MOH and a BM and it seems like the BM is going to back out;:/ So just focus on you and FI and that will keep you happy during this process.
    Posted by shaygray88[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>This...hang in there honey, dont let the little things stress you

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    Lilypie - H1jI


    Daisypath - MFL5



  • I guess what bothers me the most is that the one BM is my cousin. I havent heard from her in weeks. I helped her plan her wedding day til the end. And all I wanted her was to do is buy her and dress shoes. But she has not been there at all. Im like seriously. Then the other BM went as far as trying on dresses, picked one, claimed she paid and I get a call from DB saying she did not pay and now its too late to order. Of course shes gone MIA on me. I guess being cousins or friends for 10 yrs has no value anymore. Smh. At the end of the day you are right ladies. Its all about me and FI and one monkey dont stop no show. Im just outdone how people have no consideration. The 3 weddings I was asked to be I felt honored to be apart of something like this. Like I dont get it..smh
  • Seems like we are both going through the same thing and we have the same theme.  I even paid for 1 girls dress and now she tells me that she doesnn't have the money to pay me back or to get a hotel room. Now I have 3 girls, and 5 men, smh
  • Dem biznitches! Id already counted on this happening (dropouts) so I always said that the bouquets Id be aking would have all three colors, so in essence I didnt have to worry about anny lacking......i also didnt wanna worry about ,matchups seeing as the nuber between en and women were already off from the bat.....so groomsmen are all in gold vests and ties whilst the ladies rock turquoise, light green and plum.....with gold accessories lol..........dont let it sweat you sissy....it'lll be BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • In Response to Re:Im mad..:[QUOTE]Seems like we are both going through the same thing and we have the same theme. nbsp;I even paid for 1 girls dress and now she tells me that she doesnn't have the money to pay me back or to get a hotel room. Now I have 3 girls, and 5 men, smh Posted by lscot84[/QUOTE]

    Girl yes..im so done with them chicks. The one chick. Has not called , txt, FB..NOTHING. so im done with her. She was there when it was bad but not for the good. Thats backwards right ?! Usually ppl are there for the good but not the bad. Smh I feel your pain.
  • In Response to Re:Im mad..:[QUOTE]Dem biznitches! Id already counted on this happening dropouts so I always said that the bouquets Id be aking would have all three colors, so in essence I didnt have to worry about anny lacking......i also didnt wanna worry about ,matchups seeing as the nuber between en and women were already off from the bat.....so groomsmen are all in gold vests and ties whilst the ladies rock turquoise, light green and plum.....with gold accessories lol..........dont let it sweat you sissy....it'lll be BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted by aquari0216[/QUOTE]

    You said it girl..them biznithces..lol im done worry about it. Im just like I cant believe they did that. O well. Moving in. Like you said. My day will still be beautiful !
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