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Bleeeeergh

TheJenniusTheJennius
2500 Comments Combo Breaker
in Florida-South Florida
... Hhhhi.

I swear I'm not high anymore <<< Disclaimer.

Last night I went to a football (soccer for you) match and decided it'd be a rad idea to jump up and down and scream like a lunatic (hey, my team won). This morning my back was calling me names. I skipped work, took my pills and headed to bed.

I just woke up.

This be my first time updating from le new Knot. I am still deciding if I like it.

In the meantime, I need your advice. I am dealing with a vendor I very much liked at the beginning, but now is irking me off. Some of you know who I'm talking about, and while I don't want to piss him off (I don't want him performing badly on the big day), this has seriously turned into a "Come on, mister" situation.

What would you do?

And ... omg Amy has single digits D:
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  • YHFoxtrotYHFoxtrot
    2500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    hard to give you advice without knowing what this vendor is doing wrong or what happeend but If you're not happy with something you should say so. You are paying for a service. Good luck I hope it works out!
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  • courtneybrooke921courtneybrooke921
    2500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    my love - I hope your back is okay!!!

    I think this situation is getting more & more out of hand and perhaps the next step would be to write a letter/email explaining your apprehension.

    Explain you are not getting the service you have paid for so far and if he is not willing to hold up his end of the bargain, you will gladly except your deposit back and take your business elsewhere.

    Of course, say this as nice as possible so he doesn't screw up the big day!!
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  • goldie3474goldie3474
    2500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    def tell your vendor how concered you are - if he values your business he will go right by you. if not, it might be time to find someone else
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  • lilbit255lilbit255
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Awwww I hope your back is feeling better!  Try being honest with the vendor in a nice way, but express your concerns.  If you don't, you may end up with poor service anyway if he's doing something you don't agree with.  It's hard to say without knowing the exact situation though.
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  • zobo410zobo410 member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    You need to open that mouth (nicely) and let him know what the deal yo yo is.
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  • TtotheGTtotheG
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    edited December 2011
    STILL with this vendor? I agree - def time to send a letter/voice your concerns!
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  • JillianLLJillianLL member
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    edited December 2011
    I would first send a friendly reminder/update.
    See what he says back, if he responds at all.
    After that if he is still not performing then write your strongly worded letter. 
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  • SaraandBenjaminSaraandBenjamin
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    UGH! I'm so sorry Jen! This is so darn frustrating!!

    I have to agree with Jill. See how he responds to an initial contact and then if he's still being a sucky azz tell him how you feel.

    You're paying good money for your vendors. Don't forget that.
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  • TheJenniusTheJennius
    2500 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    Thank you, bebes :) I'll keep you posted.
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