ok so when my FI was born he was given to his gma because his mom couldnt take care of herself let alone a baby. she used to say that she couldnt take care of him because she still had more partying to do. (B*tch). so he doesnt see her as his mom at all. i guess all the drugs she used to take had a long term effect cuz shes psychotic and never wants to see any1 elses good but shes always focuses on her bad.
when we told her we were engaged she was like "oh dont get to excited, i've had my ring for 11 years and im still waiting for my wedding." like really? just shup up and smile. so then we told her were already planning andwere gonna do it in puerto rico. and shes like "oh well if your gonna be selfish and do ur wedding there no1 is gonna go." 1 more time just shut up and smile. so i tell her, the people that mean the most to us will be there because they wouldnt miss it for the world. so she goes, "oh great so u guys are paying my ticket? cuz if u want important people there ill find a good price and youll pay my stuff." i told her def not.
mind u this is all before a bbq that my family was coming to and this is the 1st time my family spends time with his family and her opening remark to my parents is so hows the planning going? (cuz she knows theyre helping me plan) and shes like oh so ur paying everyones airfare cuz i wouldnt be able to go if u dont....HOW DO U SAY THAT to people u just met?? My great dad just goes "oh so i guess youre not going to the wedding then!" lol
what do i do about this crazy lady?!?