We got the first of our RSVPs this weekend. They were from people we knew couldn't come and from FI's parents haha so not a big surprise on the answers but still fun nonetheless. We put a bunch more in the mail today so I anticipate more soon. Will get the rest out within the next week. This isn't an A list/B list thing and I'll probably still get told it is tacky but we got bombarded with questions about details this weekend when we were in FI's hometown for a wedding. So, with none of the invites done but FI's parents and international ones (sent a month ago), we prioritized whose to get out ASAP (i.e. people traveling and the wedidng party) when we got home last night. Was too exhausted to do them all so will get the rest out this week/weekend. It is earlier than we planned on sending but with people starting to ask we figured we'd rather hurry and get them out than have to keep repeating ourselves haha.