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Lucky 13

GunzNRoses213GunzNRoses213 member
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Lucky 13 and we are still rather homeless. Not for the lack of trying , it's been really difficult. I'm at my wits end and of course I still have schoolwork which is getting put on the backburner and it's about to cacth fire ...

My son just came up to say goodnight and I had books in my hand and he assumed I was busy " i know your busy i'm going to bed goodnight" ... I knew something was up ... he was holding back tears ... He finally broke down and said he missed me because I'm busy and not at home all the time [ cause of school ] or I'm on the phone at certain times... I have the worst timing with him latly it seems.. Oh I just fell apart myself I felt awful for him . So i calmed him down and apologized and prayed and then read to him a lil bit in a chapter book that was nearby ... Oye it just broke my heart ...

My MOH and my bridesmaid ..aka  my bff and my big sister apparently didnt schedule anything for a bachlorette party.. They wanted to just stay here at the house and wacth a chic flic... at first i was ok with that but then I really didnt wanna stay at home .. I wanted a night out so I texted my MOH this last week . She said Ok noted ... Well they never mentioned when they wantd to do somehting so I thought I'd mention that I need to know if they wanted me this coming weekend so I would be around .... Well I guess my sister still thought we were doing chic flics in our basement the night before the wedding ... I said No I'm sorry i changed my mind and I really need a night out and I honeslty didnt wanna go the night before the wedding [ not in fear of a hangover but just because I dont wanna be tired etc ] ... So really it dosnt look like its happening at all so i said just forget it ...
 
And I also had made mention before a few months ago that I did NOT want anyone buying me lingerie...They were bugging me about it a few months ago and I was REALLY uncomfortable with it and told them not to at all . I've bee stocking up plenty at Victoria Secret for the past year .. Trust me when I say I dont need it and also I just didnt want my sister or my best friend buying it for us . My FI and I view it as very personal and I really dont want anyone to see what I would wear for him . So i txtd my MOH tonight and said to forget the bachlorette party and if they bought me anything I was going to return it end of story. She asked if i was ok and i said i was fine and i just kinda wanted to be left alone...

I guess I kinda felt like they didnt take the time to plan anything and so I just decided it wasnt worth it to make people come out now at the last minute because they didnt organize it . And that no one would show up cause its last minute.  No thanks ...

my centerpiecse are almost done .. Trying to track down my soloists and organist is like pulling teeth ...

I am so antsy for the next 13 days to get it over with ... Anyone else ever get tired of everyone asking you if you are done / are you ready yet ? I get it's the polite thing to do but I dont like to lie to people right now and have to be debby downer ... "Oh yes i'm fine but we are homeless I'm doing great " ...
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Re: Lucky 13

  • peachykeen26peachykeen26 member
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    edited October 2012
    I really just got tired of the entire wedding thing. I really was over it. I didn't want anything to do with the wedding, and I quit planning at 13 days out.
    I had a lot of my plans change completely in the 5-10 days leading up to the wedding, and it was because of my venue. I was really ready to kick them.
    In any case, I want you to pray for God to take these weights off of your shoulders.
    I don't want to be rude, but no one is entitled to a bachelorette party. I didn't have one and I was fine with it. The night before my wedding, SIL and MOH and I went to see Brave the movie. It was great and I was totally hyped up on sugar from sprinkling caramel flavoring on my popcorn.
    If you need a night out, why don't you just tell your girls that you are going to be here and here and that you would like them to come. If you are really that opposed to taking care of it yourself, then you need to explictly express your expectations for your bachelorette party. It's obvious that your MOH and sister are not aware of your expectations. Just let them know what you want.
    As for being homeless, you are obviously living somewhere now. So you aren't homeless, you just haven't purchased a home yet.

    I really think that you need to go to God with these struggles. You seem to have a lot of anxieties and I really think that God will help clear these anxieties and stresses.
    Have you and your FI talked about these things, too? Ask him to pray with you about these things. Pray with your entire family for God's help, and I think you will get it.
    I will be praying for you.

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  • GunzNRoses213GunzNRoses213 member
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    Anxiety may as well be my middle name. .. We are homless after 11 days.. Like we have no place to live as husband and wifey... We both still live with our parents...

    we have been praying...nothing seems to be working out yet and we've been at it for months.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_christian-weddings_lucky-13?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:464687ae-7bc1-4360-9aea-999e11f1e1adDiscussion:71eecba2-a050-40f2-b626-bd8aedd63a55Post:baa568ce-7f2b-473d-8203-83c37bdcfc57">Re: Lucky 13</a>:
    [QUOTE]Anxiety may as well be my middle name. .. We are homless after 11 days.. Like we have no place to live as husband and wifey... We both still live with our parents... we have been praying...nothing seems to be working out yet and we've been at it for months.
    Posted by GunzNRoses213[/QUOTE]


    You should serisouly go see your doctor about anxiety.
    And, maybe you both move in with one set of parents, or maybe you need to rent for a few months and then sublet when you find a house.

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