Hi everyone! I am stuck in quite a situation, unfortunately I've seemed to do it to myself. My fianc I got engaged 2 years ago, and right away we started planning our wedding. I jumped the gun and asked my sister, my lifelong best friend, a friend from college to be in my wedding party. Unfortunately, a few months after getting engaged our wedding planning came to a sudden halt because my fianc had gotten laid off we needed to dip into our wedding fund in order to live at the time. After a year a half of being unemployed he was finally able to get another job. We are currently back in stable finances starting to plan our wedding again. We are aiming for November 2013! But, in the meantime, as these past 2 years have gone by, the girl who was a college friend has kind of fallen off the face of the earth. She was someone who I was kind of close with in college, and when I got engaged I thought I wanted her involved in my wedding. But we don't talk anymore, she lives far away, and I haven't seen her since 2 years ago at her own wedding which I was just a guest, not in the bridal party, and she was completely rude to me at her wedding. Now that I'm starting to plan our wedding again, I'm afraid she's going to come out of the woodwork think she's still going to be in my wedding, but truth is, I no longer consider her to be a good friend of mine, she's more of an acquaintance, if that! So, my question is, what do I do? Do I wait see I she even brings it up, or should I be the one to bring it up? Should I even invite her to the wedding, or would that be more of a slap in the face than just not inviting her altogether?! I don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but at the same time I really don't want someone who I barely know anymore to be involved in my wedding. Help please! :