I have been under so much stress planning my wedding to accomodate my bridesmaids. From finding them the cheapest option for their dresses ( avg final price $150), from trying to get them to do their fittings, from people not showing up last minute to things I have planned for them ( after RSVPing yes!) to complaining about having to pay for the hotel ( which is only $99 a night), trying to find a hairstylist that was inexpensive AND would do the type of hairstyles they want... I am just so overwhelmed! I am trying to go out of my way to make this day great for everyone, I am even getting a gourmet catered lunch for them before the ceremony.
A few of them have not been bridesmaids before, so I think its partly just not knowing about the tradition.I have no idea what to do now, I am trying not to let things bother me, but I dont want to hear anyone complain, especially when it comes to paying $99 for a hotel room when my fiance and I have struggled to pay for our $20k wedding ourselves. I feel like if someone accepts to be a bridesmaid, they should know that some things are expected? Maybe I am wrong?
I am just so annoyed! I have been a bridesmaid before a couple of times and never would I have complained about so much, or complained about anything. I literally have a headache now.