I decided from the very beginning that I wasn't going to invite anybody from work. I flat out didn't want some of them there, and I was worried some would get offended if I invited some people and not others.
Since getting engaged, I've transferred to a different unit (I work in a hospital) and a couple people from my old unit have also transferred here. One girl in particular I kinda consider a "work friend" and I know it's wrong, but I get very excitable, and I've been discussing wedding stuff with her. One night about a month or two ago she asked when and where it was, and I told her, and she said something about going. I was mortified she had invited herself. Since then she's asked a couple more times, and the last time she said she put it in her phone so she wouldn't forget it.
One of my best friends, who use to work on my old unit and knows the co-worker in question, says I should just invite her. The person has mentioned something on my facebook about a couple other people I use to work with all going as dates to the wedding too. I wouldn't mind terribly if this one person went, but I really don't want the others there too.
She keeps asking about if we've bought or sent invitations yet (I know they're suppose to be sent already, they will be very soon!) and I've been avoiding her tonight, but she caught me by myself and drilled me about them, so she knows I have them and they're almost all printed.
The guest list was already high, and now FI has decided to invite his aunts and sister (they don't get along, it's been touch and go if they were going to be invited) which has brought the guest total to 192. Part of me wants to just not invite her and if she shows up, she shows up. Another part of me is worried she'll get upset if I have to tell her she's not invited. I might try to mention how high our guest count has become.
I just don't know what to do I guess.
