So my Aunt wants to throw my shower, in conjunction with my BMs because they also made it clear that they want to be involved, and she asked me for my guest list (a little early imo, since they've scheduled the shower for June, but she's super excited). She told me that they can accomodate up to 40 people.
Putting together the list, I came up with about 30 names, but then I started wondering if I should invite these 2 girls who are super sweet and great, but they're definitely FI's friends and not mine. He's known them since middle school, and we see them three or four times a year (his work schedule doesn't allow for more). I think they're great, but I don't really consider them friends of mine, mostly because I never hang out with them unless FI is there, I feel like they're more his friends... I think I would like to invite them to the shower, but would that be weird since almost everyone else there is going to be there for me? FI's mom and stepmom will be there, but his aunts and grandmother can't come, and these two girls are the only female friends of his on our wedding guest list.
I'm just worried about it looking gift grabby, or making them feel uncomfortable, but at the same time I really like these girls and wouldn't want them to feel left out either... Does that makes sense?
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