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Already drama from the sister

HallanoleHallanole
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So my youngest sister has two kids. And for a little idea of her personality, in her world she is Always the victim. Everyone is not nice to her and we exclude her on everything and t.

Reality: She thinks she is a tough cookie, constantly talks "Yo dog" swears worse then a truck driver. Family invites her, she doesn't show nor bother to respond and the invites to things died out. 

Well I advised her in the begining, No Kids at the wedding. This is of course minus wedding party children. My daughter is a BM, FI's son is RB, and my SIL is my MOH and her daughter/my niece is the FG. 

Well dad had to call her as the RSVP deadline passed and of course I don't have an updated number for her. She put up a huge stink to Dad as it's not fair that no kids and she doesn't have a sitter and how it's okay for my kids to be there. 

I told dad that I was marking her down as a No and he was fine with it. He is frustrated with her too. I just feel bad that dad had to endure her on my behalf. 


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Re: Already drama from the sister

  • michelle11988michelle11988 member
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    That sucks, I don't understand a few of our guests asked but were basically thrilled when we said no kids and they had an excuse to have a night out alone without feeling like they are leaving the kids behind.  I'm sorry that your sister can't attend your wedding because she can't find a sitter.  Also your kids should be at the wedding as its your wedding!

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    Of course YOUR kids are going to be at YOUR wedding.  I'm so sorry you have to deal with someone like that.  Are you upset she isn't going to be there or is this sort of a relief for you?
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  • HallanoleHallanole
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    I am actually relieved as mean as that sounds. My venue is very classy and FI and I paid for it ourselves. I was already dreading the drama about her insisting parents paid for it. 

    Also a few years ago at my other sister's destination wedding (dad, FI, brother, and I drove 14 hours to it. Boston to Kill Devil Hills NC) she started a fight there and gave attitude as she had 1 child then which attended and when everyone went out, she couldn't due to no sitter. 

    I am glad to not have drama now during the wedding. :)


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  • Melissa.hyltonMelissa.hylton
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    People have had PLENTY of time to find a sitter. I like how people are so shocked on why they cant bring their children or waited til the last damn minute to find a sitter and now cant! 
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    As long as you are not upset about it, that is what is important.  At least you don't have to worry about the drama that she could have caused if she attended.  It's a bummer that your sister isn't more supportive though.
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  • mekiakoomekiakoo member
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    Ugh I know. I have a friend who says her husband (who is also our friend!) cannot come because they need someone to watch their daughter. Huh? They have known about this for over a year. Blah, whatever!
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