Am I crazy here or being a little too much of a "miss manners check your etiquette?" type of person? When you address an invitation to a specific person or couple or family for that matter..you are inviting them and them alone, right? How come people do not understand this? I have had people ask to bring kids, friends, coworkers...to all events so far- bachelorette, shower and wedding! I serioulsy had a budget to stick with and my fiance and I cut our lists to incorporate for our parents as they were kind enough to help pay for the cost. It really puts the host in an awkard position when you call them and ask "can i bring so-and-so?" and they have to explain why. Why cant people just understand the invite is for the guests who are listed on it? I mean..weddings have been around for a while now..right? Ugh. SO SORRY for venting...