HELP!! I am so torn between two different honeymoons! We are looking at Sandals Ocho Rios. 6 night stay in a villa with a butler

Personally I would love this.
BUT my fiance wants to do something different and adventurous. Fly into Washington DC, and experiece history and all it's offerings for a few days. After that, drive down into Shenandoah Vallery and hit wineries, Bed and Breakfasts, etc. Need advice! What would you do?!
I am just afraid that I will get bored in Jamaica....