So I'm starting to get sick of two of my bridesmaids, so much that I am starting to regret asking them to be in the wedding party. First of all, as soon as I asked them (about a year ago - the wedding is in less than a month) they began bugging my sister (the MOH) about planning a bachelorette party. I'm not really even into having a bachelorette party and would rather have a spa day, but they keep on insisting on having a party and dressing me up. Second, one of them made an embarrassing speech at my bridal shower - where she told everyone that my mom called her mom asking that she be friends with me when we were young. Which was completely untrue. Then she made fun on my hometown, where the shower was being held and where 75% of the shower guests were from. But most importantly, they invited themselves to sleep over at my parents house the night before the wedding. Am I crazy, or is this weird to anyone else? I feel like if I wanted them there, I would have asked them myself. But I don't want them there, I have enough to worry about and will probably barely sleep that night anyways. They didn't even think to ask whether any of my family was staying over and whether there was room for them. I might feel differently if they didn't live 15 minutes from my parents and had nowhere to stay. So I've told them that our house is too full and now I think they are mad at me. Am I overreacting about letting them stay over? I don't want to be a bridezilla but I see how the stress can turn you into one!!