We're having a small wedding party, consisting of 2 moh's (my daughter and sister), and 2 bridesmaids. I've been having issues with one bridesmaid. I technically never even asked her to be a bridesmaid, but we had been hanging out a lot so at the time I was okay with it. We have been to a few different stores to try on dresses and she has constantly put down my colors, every dress I've picked, and has tried to tell me what to do. This is my day, not her's! We haven't seen each other or hardly even spoke in over a month, due to the fact that she is now living with my fiance's psycho ex. I need to know how to politely remove her so I don't completely ruin my friendship with her. We don't want his ex knowing every detail of our wedding and I don't want someone in it who constantly puts everything I want down! What should I do?