I came across a comment on another board stereotyping Catholics as judgmental and it got me thinking. Obviously, by growing up Catholic I've heard this many times before, but I guess it just continues to bother me because I know it's not true and many people still seem to believe this. It's a shame that people feel this way because in my hometown (and I'm sure it's the same with all of yours also) the Catholic churches and local Catholic charities do so much for the community and do not discriminate. I wish people would realize this. I know you can't make people be grateful, but I think a lot of it stems from ignorance. I worked in a mental health facility for 3 years and volunteered at a homeless shelter...I often overheard many of the same individuals who received money and items for their children through the church, later complain about them and put down Catholicism. Some said the church didn't give enough, and others I don't think even realized where the gifts came from.
Also, with the recent (by recent, I mean the past several years) uproar of sex scandals among priests making national headlines, I've heard many more stereotypes. Most of them you can probably guess or assume what they are. For the most part, I just keep hearing people say that "all priests are homosexual" and "protect your children." Just because a few priests made terrible decisions does not mean they are all bad people. To get my point across, I like to use the analogy, "Not all priests are sexual abusers, just like not all Muslims are terrorists."
Other stereotypes I've heard through the years are: Catholics drink too much, they worship saints and statues, they're stuck-up, they always have a lot of children, etc.
So, I was wondering....what kinds of stereotypes have you heard? And in what ways have you dealt with them? How do you educate people who openly criticize Catholics, or is it worth it to even bother?
(My intentions are not to offend anyone or attack the girl who made the comment on another board. I'm just genuinely curious how others like myself have dealt with these issues through the years.)