I am getting married in October and my MOH recently asked me for a guest list to my bridal shower. I'm not exactly sure what names to give her. Here is the problem. In the past, my fiance's mother has thrown all the girls and future daughter-in-law's a bridal shower except they (his parents) don't want him and I to get married because I have not finished my college education yet. We are not really on speaking terms with his parents any longer because we chose to go ahead and get married anyway (I'm 25 and he's 27 and financially stable) and therefore I doubt she will be throwing me a shower. The problem I am facing is that my personal guest list for my family is about 60 people. To add his family would be another 60 people. I don't want to put my MOH in the position to invite so many people but I'm also scared about offending his family because things are already kinda tense. On top of that, when my fiance and I first got engaged, many of his extended family expressed how excited they were for my shower so I don't know what to do. I can't just pick and choose a few of his extended family to invite because they are all close enough that if you invite one you kinda have to invite them all. My mom told me that I should just invite my family and if his side wants to throw me a shower someone will, and I agree but I'm scared of making things worse with his family. Anyone have any suggestions?