I'm getting married in February and I'm having 2 showers. The first is a Couples Shower (coming up soon) and the second is a traditional Bridal Shower (being given closer to the wedding). My fiancee and I have the same circle of friends (thats how we met) and we are inviting them to the couples shower as well as close co-workers and a few family members (mostly his since mine will come to the bridal shower). Is it ok if I invite "the couple" to the couples shower and then invite "the girl" to my bridal shower? or is it tacky? I don't expect the repeats to give gifts at both parties and I'm only considering doing this with very close friends who I really want to attend both and obviously my bridesmaids and our moms. Also, because we have mutual friends its harder to divide because my fiancee may be close to the guy and wants him to be at the couples shower but I'm close to the girl and want her to be at my bridal shower but I also don't want anyone thinking I'm a greedy bridezilla! I'm confused and need help.