UPDATE: Band & Certificate

So we finally found our bands and bought them (but it takes 4-6 weeks to come in, so we may not be using our REAL bands at the wedding, which I'm trying not to stress. The jeweler is gonna let us borrow the samples).

And remember my worries about the marriage license and getting my name changed beofre March. Well I called my local clerks office (which I highly suggest because downtown is just TOO rude) and she told me we can be married by a notary and if we walk in with the signed license she'll record it that day, so we can start the sscard process and such. I was VERY relieved. This way I'm not wasting my two week vacation waiting for a mailed in certificate

Thanks for letting me share