Hey Everyone- I need some advice. My fiance is deploying in May 2011 but there has been talk of moving it sooner. He also has a few trips happening before then too that he is unsure how long he will be gone. We want to get married before he leaves but we wont be able to plan the whole wedding before. So we want to have a small ceremony with just family before he leaves and then have a larger ceremony when he gets back with a reception so our friends and important people can be involved. Has anyone done that? Can someone give me advice on he best way to do that? I don't want to make people upset they weren't involved in the first ceremony. I also don't want to People to not come once they hear we've already had a small ceremony.