HELP!!

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• Lobsters25 member

  

  May 2012

  well, to start with, what do you eat and do for exercise currently?

  

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• Sarah5200 member

  

  May 2012

  Here is what our Anna wrote on a similar thread, she has lost over 50 lbs and she's full of great advice (PS Anna I hope you don't mind that I quoted you) :
  
  

  How I did it is actually quite simple (in principle) but it took breaking a lot of bad habits and forming new ones to get here.  Here are the basics (I blogged about the whole experience too and the link to that is in my signature below)

  
  

  *Get the crap out of the house.  If you have chips in your cupboard 24/7, someone is going to eat them.  If you have frozen processed lunches, it's too easy to grab that.  Remove the ease of access to things.  Example:  i love cake and ice cream.  i never have it in the house any more.  If i want it, I have to debate whether it is worth it to go spend the money, get dressed, take the time to drive to a restaurant type place to get it.  50% of the time it's not so I can avoid it.  The other 50% of the time, I go and enjoy myself.

  
  

  *Don't lose your favorite foods.  Find healthier alternatives.  For ice cream, there is a frozen yogurt place that has some fat-free and sugar-free choices plus toppings.  I'm going there tonight because their new flavor is "cheesecake".  I'll top it with fresh fruit or even cocoa roasted almonds.  Not only is it not bad for me.. it's actually good for me.  Pizza is a greasy yet flavorful diet killer if you overdo it regularly.  But there are DIY pizza recipes that are delicious and nutritious.  (fyi: turkey pepperoni is just as tasty as regular and WAY better for you)

  
  

  *Track your food.  All of it.  Everything you put into your mouth has a potential to impact your health.  Hop on a site like SparkPeople.com (it's free and has apps) and you will soon be able to see exactly where your food problems are.  Previous to doing that i was actually an under-eater.  Years of dieting had me slowly reducing my intake until I barely topped 900 calories most days.  I think my first week i tracked a 650 cal day.  Because of that, my body was in starvation mode and holding onto every darn bit of fat it could as a self-preservation technique.

  
  

  *Start an exercise routine.  It doesn't need to be something huge like taking on the p90x dvd program or running a marathon.  Just get moving.  Even a daily walk with a H/FI can start improving your health.  One of my favorite exercises is playing "chase the kittens"  it's like hide-and-seek but at high speeds all over the house.  20 minutes of that and you feel like you've worked out.

  
  

  *Set realistic healthy goals but set some superficial ones too.  My goal is to not be the fat mom some day.  When we have kids, I don't want to be too tired to play, I don't want to be an embarrassment to them as teenagers, and I want to teach them how to have a healthy lifestyle so they never have to struggle with this like i have since I was young.  I want to go to the doctor for a yearly physical and just once to be not reminded that I really should lose weight. Side goals: i want to look hot.  I want to walk into stores and not have clerks look at me with that "we only carry normal sizes" pity.  I want to like who I see in the mirror.  i want to wear a bikini in public without feeling like I should wear shorts and a t-shirt over it to not offend people with my blubber.  I want to wear cute flowy dresses and shirts without worrying that it could make me look pregnant.

  
  

  *Eat your veggies.  Your body needs vitamins.  Veggies and fruits are SO good for you.  If you don't like the taste (like my H didn't) there are tons of ways to prepare them and sneak them in that are delicious.

  
  

  *Eat breakfast.  I feel like my body doesn't get revved up until I eat something.  Even if it's just a single cheese because I'm not hungry when I first wake up, that wakes up my system.  I feel like it's led to a more efficient body for me.

  
  

  *Meal planning:  It's not only good for your wallet (helps avoid impulse buys) but it also allows you to make sure you always have healthy food on hand.  I have no "convenience" food in my house.  But i could whip up a dinner right now with only 10 minutes warning because after i shop I come home and do the whole week's meal prep (what I can anyway) and packages everything in little containers.  I have single servings of cheese and meat cubes, cottage cheese, sugar free jello, sugar free pudding, beef jerky, cut veggies and dip.  All of those are free snacks.  If I'm hungry, I eat.  I also portion out things that I'll need for various dinners and cook things like boiled eggs, mini egg bakes for breakfasts, and chicken breasts that all make for easy and quick snacks and salad additions.

  
  

  *Eat:  getting yourself a healthy diet should not involve suffering needlessly.  If you are hungry, eat.  just stay away from crap foods.  I had heard it before and didn't quite believe it, but crappy food makes you want more crappy food.  A little handful of chips can quickly become half a bag (pop chips are a delicious and healthier alternative)  whereas healthy things seem to satiate me better.  plus, there is no guilt.  If i want more watermelon, cheese, or whatever... I eat it.

  
  

  *Don't be lazy:  it's SO easy to just say I'll do it later, I'll start tomorrow, or just to keep doing what you've always done.  But we're on a weight loss and fitness board... obviously it hasn't worked.  Sure, maybe someone once lost 40lbs on WW or "dieted" their way to 15 lbs last year.  But if you're here and overweight, regardless of past losses, you're doing it wrong.  The real goal is to get to a weight that's healthy and to maintain it.  Without having to obsess over it.  You want a healthy lifestyle.  Everyone does.  I know I'd like to never count calories or debate over whether I really need a second helping of mashed potatoes and gravy.  It should be intuitive.  I think once I know what all foods are worth to my body completely and totally without thinking, can eat pizza without worrying about the scale, then I think I'll have truly made it.  Because then my lifestyle will be healthy and complete.

  
  
  

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• anna.oskar member

  

  May 2012

  quoting/imitation is the most sincere form of flattery.  

  
  

  
  

  OP: Lobster has great questions.  Maybe if you tell us about your eating and exercise lifestyle as it is now, we can help you tweak your problem areas.

  
  
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• Lobsters25 member

  

  May 2012

  Haha aw, we're such a loving group today - thanks for the shoutout, Anna, and good call with the repost, Sarah.
  Anna, sorry for asking and not looking, but did you sticky that post?  If not, you should.  There are SO many posts with this question as of late (not that it's a bad thing!)

  

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• anna.oskar member

  

  May 2012

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_getting-shape_help-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:238Discussion:8afad04e-8566-42b5-8e5b-7fc592620e49Post:c1b49a5c-23c8-4c72-a124-5c70f3b020c0">Re: HELP!!</a>:
  [QUOTE]Haha aw, we're such a loving group today - thanks for the shoutout, Anna, and good call with the repost, Sarah. Anna, sorry for asking and not looking, but did you sticky that post?  If not, you should.  There are SO many posts with this question as of late (not that it's a bad thing!)
  Posted by Lobsters25[/QUOTE]
  
  <div>i can but it's awful cluttered up there at the top of the board.  I've been debating.  i might unsticky the blog thread because business has been slow on it lately.  We're still getting newbies daily in the one thread though</div>

  
  
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• Sarah5200 member

  

  May 2012

  I think it'd be a good post to sticky also! While I do love the blog one.. Hmm I don't know. Tough call there Anna!

  
  
  

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