First thing my FI and I are trying to decide is when to decide who we want in our wedding, how many, and what-not. Our wedding isn't until May 2013 so we just want to know when we should decide and when do we tell our friends? I also don't want to leave anyone out so how could we include our friends that aren't our best friends(if that makes sense)

....next thing is my FI and I loooove to hunt and he really wants camo in our wedding as do I but he wants him and his GM to wear camo vest. I want my BM to wear dark purple will this look alright? could we do black tux, mossy oak vest, and purple tie or stick with maybe a black tie... we obviously do not need to make decisions right this minute but I like having ideas of what we are going to do