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Church wedding? Not religious?

Maybe you ladies can help me. I am in a venue bust right now. I really want to bring in our own ethnic caterers as well as BYO booze. Many of the locations I like are either all included and the ones that allow me to BYO have some issue. One high contender on my venue list is a community church that rents out to weddings on weekends. 

it seems like everything I want in a ceremony and reception space. Not to mention VERY reasonable price.  

The only issue is that FI is not very religious nor am I, and both of our families are a mix of religions and cultures. As we are incorporating a lot of our cultures in the reception, the ceremeony will take place in a church and that seems weird. We are also allowed to bring in our own officiant so the ceremony itself is not religious and the church was first built as non-denominations then recently turned into a christian church. Do you think guests will find that strange that we are having it in a church since many know that we are not practicing religion? or do you think that we are kind of faking it? Maybe I am just looking into it too much. Traditional Sri lankan weddings are in a church but I don't know, many people know our family as not religious. 

Has anyone been to or had their wedding in a church but they aren ot practicing any form of religion?  

Re: Church wedding? Not religious?

  • edited December 2011
    Is your background Christian?  It wouldn't seem strange to me if you had some religious background, even if you weren't practicing.  A good amount of Americans are not really "practicing" and still have church weddings.  I think the plus point is that you can bring your own officiant because then you can make the ceremony exactly how you want it.  I don't think that it would be weird unless you were doing overly religious symbols like communion, etc....just my 2 cents.
  • edited December 2011
    I've been to weddings where the bride and groom weren't religious and weren't practicing anything and they got married at church...

    Ever thought about a chapel?

    My FI is Sri Lankan and he's buddhist. We're not having a buddhist wedding in the US but we might be in Sri Lanka.
  • edited December 2011
    I'm religious and a church wedding is my favorite part of my wedding. Really the only thing I care about and no I don't think it would be a problem if you weren't religious. Personally the church is the building if you have it there then you make it your own for that moment in time. As long as you don't do anything that damages that church or the purpose of it there shouldn't be a problem.

    Make sure there aren't huge restrictions on it, like bring in your own officiant and such. I am having that problem now.
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