Ladies, I need some help ...please! Im in a wedding that we are having a jack and jill for the bride and groom. Its a second wedding and they are doing it big, so they want the jack and jill rather than a bridal shower. The other bridesmaids want to throw a shower as well, but make it low key and not pressure people to have to buy like a kitchen aid mixer... but have a fun themed party! Can you ladies help with any ideas?? Please!