Ok so I guess I as brought up with a little bit more common courtesy then some people. But I always thought that when you are invited to a wedding you rsvp with the number of people coming that the invite was actually addressed too. Or am I wrong? I have a couple of my FI family & family friends rsvp to us with more people then we actually invited. It is causing stress between us because it is not in our budget for extra people and is to nice to tell them that. I just don't know what to do. At this point we are 38 days from the wedding and I am hoping I don't get anymore rsvp. Should he tell these people that we just can not accommodate the extra people or just suck it up and deal with it???