It's starting already! VENT

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• Happily9 member

  

  November 2011 edited December 2011

  People did the same thing to me.  I sent those further away out first, then those who lived closer a few days later.   You can't please everyone all the time...don't let it bother you.  They will feel stupid when they get their's later on! 

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• whereismymind32 member

  

  November 2011 edited December 2011

  She did get one. And when is it okay to ask who is invited to someone else's wedding? If you're invited you'll get an invitation!

  

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• kks4471 member

  

  November 2011 edited December 2011

  This happened to me too!! I was waiting for FI to get me addresses for his aunt, but had sent magnets to his other aunts. He got a text from his sister saying that Aunt Jane heard that Aunt Doe got a magnet, but she didn't. That was a wake up call to FI haha, but it was embarrassing and annoying at the same time. She shouldn't assume like that, and there's plenty of time left too. Grrrrrrr!

  

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• whereismymind32 member

  

  November 2011 edited December 2011

  So she called me out for not sendind everything at the same time, which is fine, but her message is just rude. Maybe I could cut her some slack if she phrased it more like "I got your save the date! It's so cute. My daughter hasn't received one yet, did hers get lost?"
  
  A girl can dream.

  

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• Happily9 member

  

  November 2011 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_central-new-york_its-starting-already-vent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:621Discussion:0880ec29-a2d1-490e-b192-727e6600c4f1Post:aa085cbd-83ab-496d-a51d-524d3b1abf22">Re: It's starting already! VENT</a>:
  [QUOTE]So she called me out for not sendind everything at the same time, which is fine, but her message is just rude. Maybe I could cut her some slack if she phrased it more like "I got your save the date! It's so cute. My daughter hasn't received one yet, did hers get lost?" A girl can dream.
  Posted by whereismymind32[/QUOTE]
  
  Coming from someone who wishes she really hadn't stressed the small stuff during wedding planning....LOL....
  
  I say as long as everyone gets one at some point...you'll be ok.   Obivously asking why so n so didn't get their's is very, very rude, but take it as a lesson learned. When you send out your invites....do them all in one shot!  Trust me...it will save you future headaches!  Good luck :0)

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• MCTD31 member

  

  November 2011 edited December 2011

  I feel for you. This is the type of thing that would drive me crazy.....for the same reason it's driving you crazy. Not only because she asked, but the way she asked. Even just a grammatically correct, complete sentence would be nice. So many people these days rely way too heavily on things like Facebook or texting to communicate, even when it's inappropriate for the occassion. I'd just ignore her, and hold on to her other daughter's STD even longer just to make them sweat

  

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• raes19 member

  

  November 2011 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_central-new-york_its-starting-already-vent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:621Discussion:0880ec29-a2d1-490e-b192-727e6600c4f1Post:ad1edea6-a76f-4340-b485-119af70fa553">Re: It's starting already! VENT</a>:
  [QUOTE]I feel for you. This is the type of thing that would drive me crazy.....for the same reason it's driving you crazy. Not only because she asked, but the way she asked. Even just a grammatically correct, complete sentence would be nice. So many people these days rely way too heavily on things like Facebook or texting to communicate, even when it's inappropriate for the occassion. <strong>I'd just ignore her, and hold on to her other daughter's STD even longer just to make them sweat :)
  </strong>Posted by MCTD31[/QUOTE]
  
  This would totally be me haha.

  

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• kevinandmonica2011 member

  

  November 2011 edited December 2011

  Me too!  Lol.
  
  OP... sorry you had to deal with such a boob.  I might have to make sure her invite *oopsie* gets delayed making it to the mailbox.
  

  
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• whereismymind32 member

  

  November 2011 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_central-new-york_its-starting-already-vent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:621Discussion:0880ec29-a2d1-490e-b192-727e6600c4f1Post:9f561054-b6cd-4579-85c0-685387188775">Re: It's starting already! VENT</a>:
  [QUOTE]Me too!  Lol. OP... sorry you had to deal with such <strong>a boob</strong>.  I might have to make sure her invite *oopsie* gets delayed making it to the mailbox.
  Posted by kevinandmonica2011[/QUOTE]
  
  I love that you used this insult because this week my FI was complaining at work about how he hates training other people because "he's always dealing with a bunch of boobs" and his female coworkers got all offended because they thought he was talking about them!

  

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