So my fiance and I are set to get married around this time next year. We are also in the process of buying a house together. His parents are Mormon and are extremely conservative. They aren't big fans that he and I have been living together w/o being married for the past 5 months. They keep mentioning that if we get married before the end of the year, we will get all these cuts on our taxes and stuff, trying to motivate us to get married sooner.
I always thought I would be married to the person I am buying a house with, but right now, we are more worried about putting money into the purchase of our home rather than putting on a wedding. I have always wanted a small wedding anyway, about 40 people under 2 grand. But right now, every penny counts.
However, I am starting to see the advantages to what his parents are saying. It would be nice financially if we were married sooner rather than later. So I am thinking, do a courthouse style wedding now, and this time next year, do our full wedding reception.
However, I have always done the practical thing in my life, and I am wondering if this is not the time to be practical, and rather stick to the romance of getting the wedding of my dreams. My parents got married in a courthouse way back when, and my mom said they always said they would do a large reception later, but never ended up doing it. I am worried that will happen to me.
I realize this is a similar posting to someone else's recently, but I just wanted a fresh perspective.
Thanks a ton!! (sorry post is so long!)