Here's the story, I'm getting married in November, we've only been engaged a month or so (but have been planning the wedding for 2+ months) but we've got everything all tied together or so it seems. I found a photographer who's work and personality I like. Up until about a month ago he was so fast to make appointments and respond to email questions, etc.
All of our communication has been through email with the exception of meeting in May. I spend a lot of time on the phone at work so I avoid it at most costs during my free time. In the past 6 weeks the photog and I have started email conversations twice about the engagement pics to the point where I state my availability and then he doesn't follow through with suggestions for appointments.
Finally yesterday I'd had enough and I sent this email
Hi Brian,
I understand that this is wedding season and all, and that you're probably very busy but I've got to say I'm getting a little concerned. Twice now over the past 6 weeks we've exchanged emails about engagement photos and gotten to the point where I've told you when we're available (in general terms) and not heard anything back after. If you're too busy right now that's fine, I would just ask that you send me an email or whatever letting me know that. I am pretty flexible but the lack of communication makes me really nervous when we're talking important activities related to my wedding.
Thanks
He answered it right away saying it was a misunderstanding and propsed a day for the engagement pics, I answered w/in 5 mins with a suggestion for a time and guess what.... no flipping response!!! Oh, and he has updated his facebook in that time.
Augh!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think this is my 3rd bridezilla episode. Any suggestions? Right now I'm thinking it's going to be hard for him to get good pics of me (and my sweetie) if I'm not thrilled with his business practices. Oh, and Honey is calling him to get the details sorted out.
Thanks for letting me vent!
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