Hi, I was wondering if you ladies can give me some advice.....
I'm throwing a bridal shower for my friend. I booked a private room at a restaurant. I'm also paying for it myself (don't even get me started on that fiasco). Originally, there were only a certain amount of people invited and, because it's a luncheon, I thought I would have an open bar and pick up the tab myself b/c I know it is proper etiquette that if you host a party, guests should not have to pay anything themselves...plus, it's a lunch, who's going to get trashed anyways??? However, I am upset b/c after I started getting RSVPs, guests were inviting other ppl who were NOT originally invited, so now I have a good 6-8 more people than expected. My friend said to let the self-invited ppl to come b/c she doesn't want to start drama w/the families...Well, ok, but I'm paying for it and I think that's rude b/c they weren't invited in the first place. So now, it's like I was going to offer Mimosas to everyone on my tab but if you want any beer or other alcohol..it would be up to you to pay for it. Lunch includes soda/tea/water/coffee and it's a full lunch with dessert too....so it's not just a little tea party or anything. Also, the ppl coming range from age 18-80 so it's not just a bunch of old woman or anything.
Do you think it's okay that when guests come to the shower, I make it known that the bride's drink (like a signature drink) is a mimosa so order up al you want! But...if you want any other alcoholic drink, you have to pay for it
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