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RSVP Rant and TMI/AW/EEK

honeybear072012honeybear072012
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So we're now over a week past our RSVP date.  I finally got FI to contact his friends who haven't responded and all they had to say was "Oh we'll put that in the mail."  Seriously????  I ask because I want/need to know not to get you to put it in the mail and not tell me if you're coming!!!!!!  Gah!!!  Also, I'm still waiting on my Dad's cousin to respond to my text that I sent him last night...I'm gleefully looking forward to sending him a text tomorrow that says, "Since you didn't respond I'm marking you as a no.  Thanks!"  Can't wait to do that...

On the TMI note...About a week ago we had the TMI talk about Aunt Flow going on here about early periods, etc.  My Dr finally got back to me about what's going on with mine...I have to go in tomorrow for an ultrasound and exam because something's wrong and this shouldn't be happening. =\  Nervous.  Thoughts appreciated because I'm freaking myself out!!!
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  • michelle11988michelle11988 member
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    I would have FI just text them and say thanks for putting it in the mail, but just in case it doesn't get here quickly can you let me know if you are coming and if so what meal you want? 

    Oh no that's too bad to hear about your periods! I hope everything is okay, maybe just a lot of nerves / stress.

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  • owengirl996owengirl996 member
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    The RSVP part is frustrating! I'm getting to the same point, but since my deadline was Saturday, I'm still trying to give people the benefit of the doubt and hope they at least put them in mailboxes on Saturday.

    GOOD LUCK at the doctor!!! I really hope it's nothing serious and that they can figure it out quickly!!!
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  • MeaganR12MeaganR12
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    RSVPs are definitely one of the biggest PITA thus far.

    Good luck at the Dr. tomorrow! It's probably just a precaution.
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  • BrightFireflyBrightFirefly member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2012-weddings_rsvp-rant-and-tmiaweek?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:066005ef-215f-48b1-8655-328b41e07c52Discussion:4f968159-3e18-4439-8945-991edc79c44ePost:56354d3c-867a-4b0c-a3cd-3d508ad6b291">Re: RSVP Rant and TMI/AW/EEK</a>:
    [QUOTE]RSVPs are definitely one of the biggest PITA thus far. Good luck at the Dr. tomorrow! It's probably just a precaution.
    Posted by MeaganR12[/QUOTE]

    Agreed with the precaution.

    Probably the doctor covering their ass..checking into things..just in case.
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  • bridetobe71412bridetobe71412
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    Good luck at the Dr's! Stress causes my body to freak out - I hope it's something similar for you.

    As far as RSVPs, I totally hope you actually DO send those texts. It was so gratifying to send them to my non-RSVPers! :)
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  • honeybear072012honeybear072012
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    Thanks ladies.  I do have polycystic ovaries so it's probably to check that out and make sure everything is ok.  I asked him if it could be stress related and he said it was possible but doubtful since I'm on the highest dose pill right now...Just more stress on top of wedding stress! =\

    In regards to the RSVP...If I don't get the RSVPs they're suppose to send by Friday, I'm having FI text them again because I need a head count in to the reception hall by that day.  Just don't understand why, if someone asks you if you're coming, you can't say yes or no!  We're not going to be hurt if you text no...Just don't get it...
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  • kmdeck26kmdeck26 member
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    Oh dear, good luck! I'm sure that the Dr. will have something to give you to get you all stablized and healthy :)
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  • BmoreBride311BmoreBride311 member
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    I just had someone tell me he can let me know if he's coming on July 10th. My wedding is July 14th. UGH.

    GL at the Dr. tomorrow!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2012-weddings_rsvp-rant-and-tmiaweek?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:066005ef-215f-48b1-8655-328b41e07c52Discussion:4f968159-3e18-4439-8945-991edc79c44ePost:84ddffef-4a56-4f46-8d20-eb2c3f942783">Re: RSVP Rant and TMI/AW/EEK</a>:
    [QUOTE]I just had someone tell me he can let me know if he's coming on July 10th. My wedding is July 14th. UGH. GL at the Dr. tomorrow!
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    To this, you should say "That's too late! Sorry! We'll miss you!" That's exactly what I did. Too bad, so sad.
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  • BmoreBride311BmoreBride311 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2012-weddings_rsvp-rant-and-tmiaweek?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:066005ef-215f-48b1-8655-328b41e07c52Discussion:4f968159-3e18-4439-8945-991edc79c44ePost:9daaecc7-84d1-495e-a34f-0f3970bb2f9c">Re: RSVP Rant and TMI/AW/EEK</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: RSVP Rant and TMI/AW/EEK : To this, you should say "That's too late! Sorry! We'll miss you!" That's exactly what I did. Too bad, so sad.
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    <div>Believe me, I wanted to. I was actually thinking of your gchat conversation you recounted last week when he said that. But it's FI's family member, and he would be coming from Peru, so I am trying to be understanding that it's difficult to get travel visas and make arrangements.</div>
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  • honeybear072012honeybear072012
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2012-weddings_rsvp-rant-and-tmiaweek?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:066005ef-215f-48b1-8655-328b41e07c52Discussion:4f968159-3e18-4439-8945-991edc79c44ePost:8bc0f046-0bcb-4b98-b6f2-d9559295f210">Re: RSVP Rant and TMI/AW/EEK</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: RSVP Rant and TMI/AW/EEK : Believe me, I wanted to. I was actually thinking of your gchat conversation you recounted last week when he said that. But it's FI's family member, and he would be coming from Peru, so I am trying to be understanding that it's difficult to get travel visas and make arrangements.
    Posted by BmoreBride311[/QUOTE]

    We're doing this also...They've had a load of time to find flights but just seemed to wait too long and don't want to tell us no because of flight stuff...Blah

    Thanks for the GL! =)
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