Can you have both?? Here is my dilemma.... I have been a single mom for 14 years and am now getting married. My little girl is the closest thing that I have outside of my sisters and girl friends of course. We are short on the grooms side for men but still want my daughter to be a major part of my wedding. So question is can I have a maid of honor (daughter) and a matron of honor (sister) and then the next question is.... is it ok to have the Maid of honor walk down the isle alone right before me?? Need help.