This evening, we ended up having our first heated disagreements about our Wedding and left me very frustrated. I will get to the point first and then explain after...My Fiance wants to implement a Dress Code and have it listed in our invitations as well. I told him absolutely not!
Our Wedding Venue is at a Country Club, it is all RSVP'd, but its still a laid back atmosphere. As I would hope our guests would dress nice, but I do not feel comfortable telling our guests what they have to wear. It makes me feel like people will think i'm snobbish, and that is definitely not me. Not only that, but i've never recieved an invite telling what I can and can't wear.
This all came up the other day when he was looking through some of my cousins wedding pictures and noticed what some of the guests were wearing. There are a couple people in the pictures who are also invited to our wedding, and he doesn't want them showing up like they were at my cousins wedding.
I told him that I am not going to have any dress code implemented and definitely nothing in our invitations about what to wear, in my opinion its tacky and maybe borderline rude. Am I wrong to think like this? This is really driving me crazy because he is being very serious about it.
This is his quote for the night: "I refuse to get my picture taken with anyone that looks like they are dressed for a NASCAR race instead of a wedding." I told him its his choice who he has pictures with anyways, as it is mine as well.