It's getting to be that time where RSVPs are due. My one friend asked me when STDs first went out back in Feb if her son was also invited to our wedding (he will be 15 months by the time our wedding rolls around). I told her no, only immediate family's children were invited (the youngest being 7) and none of their parents are bringing them, so zero children will be at the wedding. I just got a text from her telling me they can't find someone they are comfortable with to watch their child for the evening, and unless we are willing to bend on the no child policy, they have to decline. While I would hate to loose 2 people from the guest list, I have already told people that the reception is adult only and everyone else has done their part to make appropriate arrangements. She's had over 6 months to find someone, and I'm sorry she can't find someone, but I don't want to start making exceptions and making other people angry. I just want to make sure I am making the right call by sticking to my "no children" policy.