once I book something for the wedding, I find something out about my family that makes us wish we eloped?
1. Today I found out that my parents had our exs over for dinner when my step sister, (who we will call E) and her family was visiting from Mass. I didn't even know that they were down and have yet to meet their new baby.
2. We are supposed to go up to E's house for the baby dedication on Sunday. My step mom asks what time we think that we are going to get there and I tell her 1230 since everything starts at 1. I find out at that point that we were only invited to the party not the services because E didn't think that we wanted to go. I told my step mom that we would be there for the services but E has yet to even say anything to me about the church.
3. I told my parents about a really good airfare to get down to FL. My step mom said that we should book, so I did and she booked for her and my father. Later I find out that she has booked and paid for my step bother and his family, is finalizing ticket for E and her family and is waiting to hear back from my brother to book his tickets.
I could go on about how I feel like they think our relationship is bad and they are just tolerating it rather than accepting of it. I am just so tired of everything and I know that some of this stuff shouldn't bother me, but it does. I am sorry if I sound like a whiney b*tch but I had to get this off my chest. Please feel free to flame away and tell me that I am stupid.
PS - If you got through this you deserve your favorite drink in an extra large cup.