This will probably be long so hang in there with me! I just need to vent this out to people who are not judgey faces
FI and I will have nights once in a blue moon where we will drink and play video games, last night was one of these nights... I'm just p/o'ed because last night he drank waaay too much (he has a hard time pacing himself I guess). He kept passing out randomly in random positions. Fine. I ask him if he wants to go to bed (this was around 10pm). No, he says. He finally at least goes and lays down on the couch. An hour or so later he's like, I need to puke. Okay. So I help him to the bathroom and make sure that the lid is up and he has water and leave him to it since he doesn't want me in there.
I don't hear anything for like 10 minutes.. so I go to check that he is okay.. he's laying on the floor passed out.. I wake him up, stand him up, ask him if he wants to go to bed. He says no he feels like he has to puke again. So I again, leave him to it. He walks out a few minutes later and goes and lays diagonally across our bed. I tried to get him to drink some water, but he wasn't having any of it. I then go to use the bathroom and there's puke all over the sink. Sure. I can deal with puke. I cleaned it up and went back to what I was doing.
By the time I finally want to go to bed its probably 12:30.. fight my way into bed since he was covering up the entire thing.. lay down and it smells like vomit. Try to wake him up so he can do something about it.. but he is out cold. So I grab my pillow and the comforter and make camp on the couch.
All in all I probably got 3 hrs of sleep through being too hot and dealing with the crated dogs crying.. and THEN he gets up at probably 6am and starts click clacking on his computer in the same room that I am trying to sleep.. so needless to say I am a cranky person today..
He asked why I was sleeping on the couch, so I told him he puked in the sink and went to bed smelling like vomit. I didn't want to get into anything with him this morning since I knew he has 2 job interviews today and I didn't want to stress him out, so I left it at that and went to work.
When I got to work, I had 2 long messages explaining how sorry he was and that he changed the sheets and that he'll never drink again. All I said in return was okay and left it at that. I'm just super tired and cranky and kinda pissed that he was so inconsiderate. Especially since I never drink myself silly and make him hold my hair back so I can puke. I make a point of not getting to that point.
Sorry this is so long, just needed to get it all out there and hopefully not go completely ragey at FI later tonight.
TL;DR: FI drank himself silly, blew chunks in the sink and I had to sleep on the couch so I'm pissed. >_<