Back story: We decided to cut our guest list off at age 18 except for first cousins (my FI has one first cousing that's 15) and nieces (flower girls). One of FI's cousins made a comment to him a couple months ago that her daughter (8-10 years old) was so excited for our weddng that she was already saving money. At this time my FI politely told his cousin that her daughter was not invited since we were not having kids other than my two nieces, but we would be providing babysitting at the hotel. (His cousin had also already received her save the date addressed to just her and her husband, not family.)
Fast forward to yesterday: My FI logs onto facebook and his same cousin messages him to say "Please talk to audubonbride2013 and get back to me. My daughter is so upset that she can't go to your wedding. Please make an exception. If it is a budget issue don't worry she can just eat off my plate." My FI politely responded back to inform her that we weren't going to make exceptions because that would cause issues with their other cousins with kids and all of my cousins and kids. They had some back and forth and finally she said ok.
My FI can't help but feel guilty that he's hurting his cousin's kid's feelings, but at the same time we don't want kids at the wedding sp he's staying strong. I just can't believe how rude his cousin is being. I mean her daughter is a second cousin who lives in TX while my FI lives and MD. He's literally only seen her daughter a handful of times, so it's not liek they're close. I just don't understand why his cousin is trying to demand and guilt trip my FI into inviting her daughter.
CN: FI's cousin is trying to guilt trip him into inviting her littler daughter.
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