Let me just say I am totally against bridal showers. My FI told me there was no getting out of it with his family so just smile and say thank you. Ok, with that said I made him promise to at least tell me when it will be so I'm prepared. I dont like surprises and I really dont like corny bridal showers. So FI just called me to tell me that they decided to not throw the party. Phewww..Huge relief for me. Especially knowing no one will be wasting money on something ridiculous. (sorry if i offend anyone who loves bridal showers)
Then I find out the reason behind it. Apparantley no one wants to lend a hand in the planning. My MOH who is my soon to be sister in law, and my mother in law were doing everything, including paying for it. They asked for help from my BM's who turned them down and my own mother who turned them down. They couldn't afford to do it all on their own so they had to ditch the idea. Everyone wanted nothing to do with it.
I dont want the party in the first place but the part that upsets me is that no one cares or gives a s**t to be part of it. I feel very unimportant to all of them,excluding my MOH and MIL. I'm the most laid back person and the total anti-bridezilla. I really couldn't make the whole weddiing process any easier for everyone. I'm very accommodating, so why aren't they? It just hurts my feelings alittle. If this was the other way around I would be happy to help out and show I care.
I had to get it out, sorry it was so long.