So we'd decided to write our own vows, and FI had the idea to start w/a line from a song that reminds us of the other, and build a few lines from that. The other night at dinner I asked him what song he'd picked, knowing he wouldn't tell me. He did say that he needed to change one word in it so that he would be addressing me.
Last night, we were in the car and Eddie Vedder's "Hard Sun" came on the radio. He loves that song, so he turned it up right away, and then I heard the first line, "When I walk beside her, I am a better man..." I just looked at him, and he said, "Damn you!" Not actually mad, I just have a history of unknowingly figuring out surprises.
So I'm a tiny bit bummed it won't be a surprise, but it was kind of a relief to tell him mine and hear that he liked it, since he's so picky about music... I picked a line from This Magic Moment, "Everything I want I have whenever I hold you tight."