My roommate is my MOH and she made a comment that has been bugging me.... A friend asked her what she was doing once we get married and I kind of assumed she would move out and get on her own and she said she won't move out until 9 months after I get pregnant!
I should summarize... she lives in my basement. There is a kichen and a half bath down there so she is only upstairs to shower or leave the house. She is really messy she lives like those people on hoarders. Her cats puke and poop everywhere she never cleans it up. She has garbage everywhere on the floor. Her bathroom for example she has 2 garbage clans in there. Both overflowing there are 9 empty toilet paper rolls on the floor and she had a empty roll on the toilet paper holder and balancing on top is a package of new toilet paper! Her kitchen is even more of a disaster. All she does is lay around and watch TV she never goes out.
I ignored it for a long time because I had broken off my first engagement and he moved out and I needed help with the mortgage. Well, now 6 years has passed I have been back on my feet and I am engaged again and this time I am getting married! I know it's going to be a lot of work cleaning up the basement after she leaves and I don't want to be preganant doing that! I also don't want to rush getting pregnant to get her to move out!
I don't want to piss her off since she is my MOH and having her buy a dress and shoes and get her hair done plus helping with my bridal shower and bachelorette party I don't want things to be weird before the wedding, but I feel like I am going crazy! Everything she does annoys me now!
I guess the worst part is I am not good with confrontation and saying hey clean up I just ignore it and it's just getting worse and we have no privacy. I also feel bad cause she tells me how she is broke all the time and we only charge her $400 to live here so really where is she going to go on $400? Cause she would need that to include everything! I am just so stressed about the whole situation! Then throw planning a wedding on top of that
Is it just pre wedding stress?
Can't wait to marry my prince!